Don’t Buy Into Think And Grow Rich, Nor The Power Of Positive Thinking Nor Rich, Dad, Poor Dad!
I’m going to tell you the harsh truth. Never, ever pursue your dreams UNLESS you have fulfilled the following (see below article) criteria. If you squawk and attempt anyway here’s the short list of what will undoubtedly happen: you will fail. You will never make money, in fact the years chasing your dreams, could have been the earning years – yes, punching a timecard, yes, doing what you hate.
Do Not Attempt To Follow Your Dreams/Goals UNLESS You Meet These Criteria:
A) You Have Support
This may come in many forms; emotional/physical usually from your parents or grandparents. Or in the fairy tale form of a wealthy, childless benefactor. Someone who is dedicated in encouraging you, believing in you, guiding you and spending time with you. Taking you to and fro – without complaining. And hopefully funneling money into…
B) Education
Not the grade school/ high school variety. Not the local vocational school. You need lessons, whether it be creative – music, arts or practical – business, construction, you must have a higher education. You had better start early. You need all of the lessons, recognition, fearlessness at the youngest age possible. College, university, graduate school, more than a bachelors in something. You need a full-on master’s or several degrees to be impressive and command your area. Why? See next line.
C) Networking
With the support of A) your parents, etc., in addition to B) all of your extracurricular activities honing your craft or interests, combined with the wallop of an extensive higher education – all this leads to exposure. With this attention, from teachers, local admirers and for this article’s sake a letter of introduction from your benefactor – comes connections. If there’s enough financially invested, purchase a headhunter. This consummates into a ‘deal.’ A real Bonafide position in your choice of field. Make no mistake ALL of these are crucial to true financial and critical success.
D) Extrovert – Not Introvert
Waiting to be ‘discovered’ does not ever happen. You must be an extrovert. With the must-haves of A), B), and C) even the most introspective author, artist, musician or philosopher child prodigy will have the confidence and security to effortlessly present themselves. This perfect storm will seize success.
Where Is Talent?
Notice that talent is not on the list. Why? Shouldn’t that be first? Without a modicum of talent, how does one succeed? Have you forgotten that other old adage – practice makes perfect? If there is even a mustard seed of attention given to one subject; repeat this over time and you become an expert. Ask anyone who punches a timecard. They do the same job day after day and they too are an expert. So, it goes with talent. Is it not often said “a little talent goes a long way?”
Don’t Quit Your day Job – Get A Real Job
There is a reason why these phrases were coined. That reason? They are WISE. Learn from them. The world is not your oyster. Do not dismiss this, I’m parting wisdom upon you. Heed it. You must be pragmatic. Do not set yourself up for failure. Slow and steady wins the race. Work at what is practical in your part of the country. Keep contributing to your companies 401K or equivalent. Yes, you will always be a worker ant, never climbing up the ladder. But something happens after decade upon decade of working. Slowly but surely, you start to acquire things. Material things for sure like a home, a car maybe three, a motorcycle, a boat, jewelry, savings. It wasn’t want you anticipated for your life. But I’m sure you’ve heard the term “starving artist”? How many of those do you know? I know plenty. And I do not want you to be among them.
Rich and Strange! 